I have experience w/autistic students. How to handle student depends
on degree of autism...verbal or non? Does student spin/spit/self-inflict?
There are so many ranges of behaviors in autistic students...if severe,
he/she is going to be an isolationist type anyway...seat him/her and
the aide along an open row of desks, not in the middle..less distraction
and more maneuverability for the aid. If non-verbal, have a picture exchange board available (you can get the Universal PECS system
graphics from speech and language specialist, or from a special ed
teacher in your school if they have it). If parents won't sign paperwork
(assuming NOREP?) then no services can begin...throw as much of
his behavior issues into the aid's lap as you can...if you are teaching
reg. ed and this is an inclusion situation, the kid will have to keep up
w/o accommodations or fail, obviously...and if kid fails, your best
hope is that parents realize they should sign paperwork..or...get
him in a self-contained sp.ed. AS support class and out of yours.
Do not lose sleep over this. Delegate as much as you can to aid,
and fail the kid if you must...do not feel sorry for him/her...ultimately
it is the parents' foot dragging preventing you from giving the kid
maximum opportunities to succeed in your room. Parents will need
a reality check and a bad report card will do it.
Good luck.
Trellis