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Bad Boy!

L

la teacher

Guest
I think I'm addicted to a bad boy. I'm drawn to him like a moth to a flame, even though I know better! What is up with THAT?
 
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Kiki

Senior Member
We always want what's bad for us...

That's why so many are addicted to alcohol, ##########, chocolate...
Be careful and... HAVE FUN!!!
 

MrsM

Senior Member
According to Dr. Laura, it's usually because a woman doesn't feel she deserves a decent guy, that she could keep his love. How I broke the cycle is to stop and think of all the qualities in a man that would be positive, and make a list. Then, don't settle for less. If you keep on with "bad boys" you could end up in an abusive situation, even though he doesn't act like it now. My ex could control himself for several years before he cut loose.
 

Teach4

Senior Member
It's because

you think you can change him. Take it from me, you can't. He doesn't ever get any better, only worse.
 
L

la teacher

Guest
Nope, this isn't a pattern...

it's my first bad boy. ha!
 

Mackenzie AK

Senior Member
and I'd bet

you are a very good girl!!! I agree there is some strange attraction. Just becase you are attracted to him doesn't mean you are going to marry him. Have fun but be careful. I was in your shoes at one point in time. granted I didn't marry him or anything, but it was a fun time in my life and I am glad I "got it out of my system" :) I wouldn't trade the experience or memories for anything in the world.
 
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