registry
I agree that looking at the register is a great idea! So many moms have different ideas about what they want and need. Some things I loved: diapers (but include something non-consumable like a play toy or socks), sleepers (the gown type because they're so easy to change diapers with on newborns), cute picture frames (engravable especially), and soft outfits (if you know the gender). For bigger items, I LOVED my Johnny jump up (or any name brand of hallway jumpers). I honestly can't say anything I didn't use - I enjoyed it all!
For NCTeacher - something I couldn't do without on my 2nd and 3rd babies, was a calendar with stickers! With the first baby, I had time to write down everything in their baby book. With the others, I kept a baby calendar above the changing table. I just added the sticker when something happened (1st crawled, ate solid food, etc...) and I went back and added the information to the baby book when I had time. It was wonderful!