Ok.I have been married for 14 years. My Dh and I met in college. We are very happy and have 2 wonderful children. We rarely argue. When we met, he had just broken up with a girlfriend of 6 months, I realize not long. We dated for the next 6 months. The next year, she followed him to college. When she discovered that she wasn't getting him back, she transfered to another school. That was the last I heard from her. Yesterday, on my husbands b-day, I opened a email to him. It was from her, sending her "annual b-day" greeting. It was an update letter, signed Love, It freaked me out. I have no idea why I am so jealous, but just knowing they have corresponded and I didn't know bothers me. Am I wrong. I know our marriage is strong and that it means nothing to him...but why do I hold on to this insecurity.