Public Schools
So many are a mess but there are many great ones out there too. I teach in a Catholic School but did all of my student teaching and subbing for 2 years in public schools. Many of my friends teach in public schools and I know a lot of parents who send their kids to the public schools.
My observations as an outsider.
There is a lack of respect for teachers and education in general. I do believe it has a lot to do with socioeconomics, past failure of parents in the school system and society in general.
For so many years, people black, white, rich, poor were segregated. For many years desegregation was a big topic. For so many years our society has changed and not for the better.
First, I find it remarkable that every child in this country does not have the same amout of $$ spent on them by the government. Some districts spend $3000.00 and $12,000.00 per student. How can education be fair and equal?
Some children have 2 parents, married, a nice house, a warm bed and breakfast. Some children have one parent, don't know their father, live in shelters or housing projects, no heat or electricity and nothing in the fridge to eat. Some have an Aunt or Grandmother trying to do their best rasing a child/children from a loser daughter or sister.
Some children have schools that are well kept with books and supplies and some have peeling lead paint, asbestos, few books, no work books and little supplies.
Some districts have certified full time teachers and some have substitute teachers all year because they cannot find or keep good teachers.
Some children have seen more drugs, death, poverty, murders than any human should ever have to endure.
A President who has the NO Child Left Behind Act and then cuts funding and expects miracles, yet has no clue how most children live.
Some children were bless with prenatal care, proper nutrition, exercise and a birth at a hospital. Some children never were seen by a Dr. for prenatal care because their mother was in denial of being pregnant, on drugs or alcohol.
Some children were born healthy and were nurtured and loved. Some children were born with disabilities of no fault to their parents. Then there are those crack addicted and fetal alcohol syndrome children who suffer before birth and through their entire life.
Then there are those parents who want to be their child's friend and not their parent. They believe that Johnny and Susie should have everything and the word NO is not in their vocabulary. Then there are those parents who abuse their children and all those children hear is I hate you and wish you were never born.
So with these few examples a 5 year old comes to school without the opportunity for preschool and has no idea how to act socially. They are put in a classroom for 4 hours with 25 other kids and are expected to sit still, learn, and do what they are told without hesitation. They are expected to follow rules that they have no idea what rules are since no one ever took the time to teach them. They are expected to tie their shoes and sit quietly and buckle their belts and put their coats away and yet they never have learned how to do these things.
Then they are in 2nd or 3rd grade and behind because the teacher has only 6 hours a day to teach then, but remember behavior, disabilities and personal problems of each child is thrown in the mix. On a good day only a few kids are missing. But on Friday and Monday so many do not come in because they have parents who are lazy or drunk or just don't care.
So now that I passed on a few observations who is to blame. Burned out teachers and terrible teachers are, TV is, politicians are, parents are, a breakdown in morals and ethic are.........
Can it be fixed. YES! When you have a child. Bring them in to a loving marriage with two parents. Show your child respect, how to love, how to make choices, understand what consequences are. Expect your child to follow rules. Expect to take an hour a day to sit and read to and with your child. Turn off the TV. Turn off the Computer. Show your child how to cook. Show your child how to pick up their clothes. Show your child that they have a job just as you do. Their job is to be the best student that they can be. You go to school to learn. You have recess to socialize. Education is a gift that no one can take from you. You show them that talking back is not acceptable to you, the teacher or the janitor. You teach your child that anything worth having is worth working for. You teach your child to have a friend you must be a friend first.
If a child would enter the school with the respect that it deserves. The child would learn that it is theres. It must be taken care of daily. If you make a mistake you admit it, accept the consequence, learn form it and move on.
Teach your children that education is the most important thing. Sports and extra curriculars are just that extra. If we put education first and extras behind it many more children would do better in school.