to "frustrated"
I don't know if you were the original poster on this thread, but I can certainly see why YOU would be frustrated!!!!
To answer some of your questions:
>>have you ever told children to go to hell during one of your classes? <<
Not on your life!! This would NOT be acceptable. Where is your administrator in all of this?
>>do you cancel every other week?<<
Our specials are never canceled unless it comes from the classroom end, such as classes gone on field trips, etc. If specials are gone, certified subs must be hired. (Iowa)
>>do you give a list of the children that misbehaved to the main teacher and explain to their head teacher that they will be missing recess for three days?<<
Unless the "recess punishment" comes from the classroom teacher to back up a problem reported from my room, I am responsible for supervising during recess punishments.
>>Do you use 15 minutes of your instruction time to show the head teacher pictures of your grandchildren?<<
No, not even 15 seconds, but I've seen classroom teachers gather in their doorways for 5+ minutes discussing daughter's wedding, baby's toilet training, etc. while their class is raising *%@# ten feet away in the room. Then they were the ones who complained about their rotten class behavior.
>>Do you disappear into the bathroom for 15 minutes at the beginning of class? <<
Children are NOT to be unattended in our classrooms. Period. Restroom breaks are our own problem.
>>Do you meet with the parents of these children and tell them that their children need anger management counseling?<<
Don't even know what this means. Is is a "good thing" or a "bad thing?"
>>When the head teacher picks up children from your class, is one of them missing? <<
Never! But I've had classes show up at my room missing a student or two. Really throws the classroom teacher or associate who brought them throught the halls for a loop!
>>Do you send behavior problems back to the classroom with their head teacher?<<
No, and I don't want them holding them out either! It is MY time, and I want ALL the students, except in special circumstances that sometimes arise.
And finally, do I get planning time? You bet! I also have regular duties just like the classroom teachers. They have MANY responsibilities I don't have, but I have some big ones they don't have. I taught for years with NO planning time, two classrooms in two towns to maintain, and barely enough time to commute between the two in the middle of the day, let along eat lunch.
Would I want the classroom teacher's job? No way! Could they maintain order and actually teach 60-75 little ones for 40 minutes at a time with no help. Most wouldn't even try.
I can see we're coming from very different places, but I took the time to respond to each question mainly because I want classroom teachers to see that, just as there are good and bad classroom teachers, there are good and bad special teachers....and from what you wrote, I think you drew yours from the really-bad teacher pool!! Are they really certified teachers, or are they just warm bodies with some special abilities (obviously not classroom management) brought in to provide a token education in their area and/or planning time for the classroom teachers?