My husband and I have had a lot of problems lately. We do not have sex much at all (about once per month). Even then, I initiate it. Last night, he finally let me know what the problem is. My weight bothers him. That makes me so sad! I realize that I am about thirty pounds overweight, but what ever happened to unconditional love? I would still consider myself attractive. BTW, he doesn't look he always has looked, but it doesn't bother me. He let me know that he is still attracted to me, but I really am having trouble believing that. I know that I could lose weight, but it makes me almost not want to now. If he can't want to be with me now, what makes him think that I would want him if I am skinny? I just don't know what to do. I am just so upset. I don't even want to look at him. He apologized this morning, but I am so tired of caring!